Silence can be powerful.

Ever wondered what to do or even say when your friend is sad and it seems like the problem is impossible to understand or you’re unable to make sense out of their words to come up with a suitable response?

Your attempts to make them laugh a little or distract them from the problems are in vain?

I experienced that again this week and I finally learnt how to stop talking and just listen.

Everyone that knows me would tell you that I love to talk, talk about nothing and talk about everything. Once I get comfortable, it’s like my mouth is a gushing fountain of words.

But here’s the truth , when dealing with friendships or relationship of any sort, we have to learn that sometimes our loved ones don’t require us to speak mindlessly in a bid to comfort them, all they might need is our quiet prescience, to sit in silence, maybe hold their hands, a slight occasional rub or pat on the back might be all they need to feel better again.

So next time you’re trying to make someone feel better, and nothing seems to work, learn to “SHHHH “ and allow your presence to do all the talking.

I hope you’ve all had an awesome week, and if you haven’t, I’m sending my love to you & reminding you that you’ll be alright in due time so keep your head up.

See you soon loves!

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I recently started lying to myself, telling myself I work better under pressure just so I’d have an excuse to do things last minute. And right now, as I speak to you, I just recovered from a break down which I caused by being lazy.

I’m learning that when we push important things to the last minute, we end up stressing ourselves and disturbing our peace and trust me there’s nothing more important than your peace of mind. So If you have something you should be doing, please, go do it now. You can come back and finish reading this later.

Your time is precious and you shouldn’t always wait till the perfect and most convenient time to start getting things done, because the truth is, that time never comes and it could leave panicked, stressed and confused.

Let’s make a promise to each other that we’d go out and make our little dreams and goals come through let’s get all the school work and office work and life work out the way now so we can go live our best stress-free life’s

See you soon loves,

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